Courageous Conversations Training

Practical Courageous Conversations training helping staff challenge discrimination, inappropriate behaviour and difficult workplace situations confidently and constructively.

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Courageous Conversations Training

Challenging inappropriate behaviour is not always easy. People may worry about saying the wrong thing, damaging a relationship, making a situation worse or being seen as confrontational.

Building Confidence to Speak Up

Courageous Conversations training helps delegates develop practical skills for responding to discrimination, harassment, inappropriate language and other workplace behaviours that may need to be challenged.

The emphasis is not on encouraging confrontation. It is about recognising what is happening, deciding what response is appropriate and communicating in a way that is constructive, proportionate and more likely to create positive change.

Knowing What, When and How to Challenge

Some situations are relatively clear. Racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, disablist or other discriminatory language and behaviour may require an immediate response.

Other situations are less straightforward. A comment may be described as banter. Someone may not have intended to cause harm. Behaviour may be subtle, repeated or difficult to interpret without understanding the wider context.

Delegates explore how to distinguish between different situations and consider a range of responses rather than assuming that every incident must be handled in exactly the same way.

Who Should Attend?

Courageous Conversations training can be adapted for employees, managers, supervisors, team leaders, Equality or EDI Champions and others who may need to challenge inappropriate behaviour or navigate difficult workplace conversations.

No previous specialist knowledge is required. The course is particularly useful for organisations that want employees to feel more confident about speaking up while maintaining respectful and professional working relationships.

Discrimination, Harassment and Inappropriate Behaviour

Delegates receive a practical introduction to relevant principles of the Equality Act 2010, including protected characteristics and forms of prohibited conduct such as direct and indirect discrimination, harassment and victimisation.

The purpose is not to turn delegates into employment lawyers. Instead, the legal framework provides useful context for understanding why organisations need to take discrimination and harassment seriously and why some workplace behaviour may require intervention.

The course also recognises an important distinction: behaviour does not have to be unlawful before an organisation can consider it inappropriate or inconsistent with its values and standards.

Intention and Impact

Difficult conversations often become stuck around intention. Someone may respond to challenge by saying that they were only joking, did not mean to offend or had no discriminatory intent.

Intention can be relevant, but it does not automatically remove the impact of what was said or done. Delegates explore how to discuss intention and impact without immediately assuming bad motives or dismissing another person's experience.

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What Makes a Conversation Courageous?

A courageous conversation is not simply a difficult conversation. It involves being willing to address something important when remaining silent may allow a problem to continue.

This might involve questioning a comment, addressing repeated behaviour, explaining the impact of particular language, supporting somebody else who has been affected or raising a concern through an appropriate organisational route.

Effective challenge combines confidence with judgement. Delegates consider the purpose of the conversation, the relationship between the people involved, the seriousness of the behaviour and what outcome they are trying to achieve.

Recognise

Recognise discrimination, harassment, inappropriate language, subtle exclusion and workplace behaviours that may require a response.

Decide

Consider whether to challenge directly, ask a question, support another person, report a concern or use another appropriate route.

Respond

Use constructive communication that addresses the behaviour and its impact while creating space for reflection and change.

From Confrontation to Constructive Challenge

Challenge does not always need to begin with “That was discriminatory.”

Depending on the situation, a question can sometimes open a more productive conversation:

  • “What did you mean by that?”
  • “Can we think about how that might have come across?”
  • “I'm not comfortable with that comment.”
  • “Could we use different language?”
  • “What impact do you think that might have had?”

Delegates practise different approaches and consider when a questioning approach is useful and when a clearer, firmer intervention may be necessary.

Banter, Humour and Everyday Language

Workplace humour can strengthen relationships, but describing something as “banter” does not automatically make it harmless or appropriate.

Delegates consider context, repetition, relationships, power, subject matter and impact. They explore how apparently minor comments can contribute to exclusion or an uncomfortable working environment, particularly when they form part of a repeated pattern.

Power, Status and Psychological Safety

It is easier to tell people to speak up than it is to create an environment in which speaking up feels safe.

Power and status can affect whether someone feels able to challenge. An employee may respond differently to a peer than to their manager, a senior leader, customer or influential colleague.

The course therefore avoids placing all responsibility on the person who witnesses inappropriate behaviour. Delegates consider the options available when direct challenge is not appropriate, including seeking support, documenting concerns and using relevant reporting or organisational procedures.

Responding When You Are Challenged

Courageous conversations work in both directions. Delegates may also find themselves being challenged about something they have said or done.

The course explores how to resist an immediate defensive response, listen to what is being raised, ask questions where clarification is needed and reflect on impact.

Being challenged does not automatically mean that every criticism is correct. It does, however, provide an opportunity to listen and consider whether something can be learned or handled differently.

Challenge, Report or Seek Support?

Direct challenge is only one possible response. There may be circumstances where behaviour is sufficiently serious, repeated or sensitive that reporting it through an appropriate procedure is more suitable.

Delegates consider factors that can help determine an appropriate response, including seriousness, immediate safety, power differences, organisational responsibilities and the wishes of people affected where these can appropriately be taken into account.

Training does not replace an organisation's grievance, disciplinary, dignity at work, safeguarding or whistleblowing procedures.

Course Aims

  • Build confidence in recognising and responding to inappropriate workplace behaviour.
  • Increase understanding of discrimination, harassment and victimisation within the Equality Act 2010.
  • Develop practical approaches to constructive and respectful challenge.
  • Explore intention, impact, workplace banter and subtle forms of exclusion.
  • Help delegates make better decisions about when to challenge directly, report concerns or seek support.

Course Content

  • Equality Act 2010 and protected characteristics
  • Discrimination, harassment and victimisation
  • Inappropriate behaviour and subtle exclusion
  • Intention and impact
  • Banter, humour and workplace language
  • Constructive challenge techniques
  • Questions and conversation openers
  • Power, status and psychological safety
  • Responding when challenged
  • When to challenge, report or seek support

Learning Outcomes

By the end of the course, delegates should be better able to:

  • recognise discrimination, harassment and inappropriate workplace behaviour;
  • identify situations where challenge or another form of intervention may be appropriate;
  • use practical techniques to begin difficult conversations constructively;
  • discuss intention and impact without unnecessarily escalating a conversation;
  • respond more effectively when their own behaviour is challenged;
  • recognise when direct challenge may not be appropriate and another organisational route should be considered.

Practical, Scenario-Based Learning

Courageous Conversations is designed to be practical and participative. Delegates can work through realistic workplace scenarios and consider different ways of responding.

This enables participants to experiment with language and approaches in a supportive learning environment before they need to use those skills in a real workplace conversation.

Tailored to Your Organisation

In-house delivery allows the course to reflect your organisation's workplace culture, policies, terminology and the situations delegates are likely to encounter.

Relevant anonymised scenarios can be incorporated where appropriate, helping delegates connect the principles of constructive challenge with their own working environment.

Course Structure and Cost

All our courses are tailored to ensure the training reflects your organisation's goals, workplace culture and priorities.

Delivery Options

The course can be delivered face-to-face or online via Zoom or Teams.

Delegate Numbers

To support participation, discussion and interaction, we recommend the following group sizes per session:

  • Online sessions: we recommend up to 10 delegates, although we can accommodate up to 15 if required
  • Face-to-face sessions: we recommend up to 20 delegates, with larger groups available depending on the course and your requirements

Need to train a larger workforce? No problem. We regularly work with organisations that need to train larger numbers of employees. Where appropriate, training can be delivered across multiple sessions to ensure everyone receives the same high-quality, interactive learning experience. We can develop a delivery programme to suit your workforce size, locations and timescales.

Course Fees

  • £595 for a half-day session
  • £895 for a full-day session
  • Two half-day sessions delivered on the same day are charged at the full-day rate

Please note: the half-day rate is not always available for face-to-face sessions.

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